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Adam Taylor Enterprises Sponsors Wedding

October 7th, 2000

Duffy and Adrian

Today in Apsley, Canada, Deborah Ann (Duffy) Taylor and Adrian Cho were married. The wedding service and reception took place at Tallanwood - home to Malamute-L list members and Alaskan Malamute HELP League directors Molly Moldovan and Jim Thomson (and their thirteen northern breed dogs).

In addition to Molly and Jim, present at the service were the bride's brothers Rick and Dave, and sister Karen, and their respective spouses Linda, Marlys, and Wayne. Also attending were long-time friends and work colleagues of the groom, Kathy Miller and Richard Spencer, and Richard's wife, Carolyn. Standing-in as proxies for the newly married couple's five dogs and seven cats, were Alaskan Malamutes, Rowdy and Smoki. The bride's close friend and fellow pastor Janeva Stromberg was presiding minister.

Adam Taylor Three years ago, Duffy and Adrian met on the Malamute-L list - an e-mail list for owners, breeders, and people interested in Alaskan Malamutes. The romance and subsequent engagement in March, 2000, were the result of behind-the-scenes work by well-known business personality Adam Taylor, Top Dog of Adam Taylor Enterprises.

Wedding guests were truly surprised to find out that Adam Taylor Enterprises was the corporate sponsor for this wonderful event. This fact was maintained as a closely guarded secret until an advertising billboard cleverly disguised as a black forest wedding cake was brought out to be cut and served to guests by the bride and groom.

In lieu of wedding gifts, Duffy and Adrian asked guests to make donations to Lutheran World Relief and the Alaskan Malamute HELP League and then surprised their guests by giving them gifts instead. Amongst the more usual gifts were a set of conga drums and a 'how-to' book of conga drum playing, a set of porcelain figurines of Winnie the Pooh, Eeyore, and Tigger, a 'dip and chip' dish with a cat submerged in a water fountain waiting for birds to dive in, and a basket of Australian wine and a drinking flask bearing the engraved words 'Property of Jim Thomson - A Bloody Good Bloke'.

Rumour has it that this brilliant turnabout of wedding tradition was engineered by Mr. Taylor's business partner and newly acquired sister Kira. Apparently the strategy behind this strange operation is to curry favour with friends and family so as to ensure a steady future stream of squeaky toys, cookies, and catnip mice for Adam, Kira, and their various canine and feline brothers and sisters. When we rang the corporate offices of Adam Taylor Enterprises, staff there would neither confirm nor deny the rumour. Mr. Taylor was reportedly unavailable for comment due to the fact that he was chewing on a buffalo bone.

Wedding guests arrived on the Friday night before the wedding day and were immediately introduced to a wonderful show of hospitality from hosts Molly and Jim. Although the original plan was for guests to eat elsewhere before arriving, that plan did not eventuate and Molly and Jim cooked and hosted a scrumptious meal. On Saturday morning, the assembled party rehearsed portions of the service and the hymns to be sung. At 11 AM, the service took place after guests changed out of their 'dog clothes' and into more formal attire. The Order of Worship was compiled by the bride with assistance from the groom. The lovely booklet Duffy produced for the service had photos of Adam, Kira, and Chief on the front cover, with written credits to all the collective Taylor and Cho dogs and cats on the back cover. On the inside front cover were the words:

Today I marry my friend;
the one I laugh and cry with,
the one I have learned from and shared with.

This one I have chosen to support,
encourage and give myself to,
through all the days given us to share.

Today I marry the one I love.

All assembled at the service sang the hymns For the Beauty of the Earth (in four part harmony) and Lord of All Hopefulness (sung in unison), with piano accompaniment provided by the groom. The musical arrangements can be seen and heard below:

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The service was short enough that everyone stood for the duration, with guests forming a semi-circle around the bride and groom in the dining room of Molly and Jim's house. All of the assembled guests were involved in one way or another, with a number of people reading from scripture and others joining in a call and response. Duffy and Adrian exchanged platinum wedding bands and immediately after the conclusion of the service, Jim presented Duffy with a pewter HELP League pin signifying her new status as a HELP League Life Benefactor by marriage!

The service was videotaped by Wayne, for Duffy's parents Harold and Esther who were unable to attend. After the service, a lot of photo-taking ensued, much to the dismay of the bride and groom who both claimed to be terrible photo subjects. Duffy was heard to say more than once "Take pictures of the dogs instead!".

Rick, Linda, Adrian, Duffy, Karen, Wayne, Dave, and Marlys

Carolyn and Richard

Jim, Molly, Duffy, and Adrian with Rowdy and Smoki

A wonderful buffet lunch, declared by Adrian to be 'bonzer tucker' (Australian for 'bloody good food') was provided courtesy of Molly and Jim. Guests sat around Molly and Jim's living room and chatted the time away. After the fabulous meal, the aforementioned cake was served. This cake was coined 'bloody cake' by various assembled guests. The story behind this is that in one conversation with Duffy, Adrian mentioned that in addition to a number of wedding traditions he wanted nothing to do with, one was "a bloody ten-tiered wedding cake with icing and a plastic bride and groom on top". Instead, the bride and groom chose a black forest cake upon which was written in chocolate cream "Compliments of Adam Taylor Enterprises". Guests were roaming the house with a plate of cake in hand, declaring "This is good bloody cake!". Adrian had to roll his eyes more than once and simply said that it was "Bloody good cake!". Guests drank a variety of beverages including wine and beer from the USA, Canada, and Australia.

After lunch, Janeva had to leave to catch her flight back to Minneapolis so that she could preach the next morning. After some drinking and relaxing, the guests were assembled so that Duffy and Adrian could give out gifts. Naturally the guests were taken completely by surprise but some were probably wondering what was in the several large boxes taking up all the space in the back of Adrian's Subaru Outback wagon. As the afternoon drew to a close, the various guests retired to the guest rooms of Molly and Jim's house and to the local motel for an afternoon nap.

The party came together again earlier that evening for dinner, again at Molly and Jim's house. This also was not part of the original plan but Molly and Jim again were gracious hosts. Everyone pitched in and assisted where possible with the cooking and cleaning up, making for a wonderful family atmosphere that was carried through the entire event. One of the great bonuses of being at Tallanwood for a full day or more is being witness to the three shifts of dogs that are cycled through the house in the course of the day. For the dog-loving guests, this was a real treat.

After dinner, Adrian was requested to sing the 'Minnesota Forest Squid' song. This is a song that he wrote for Duffy very early on in their romance, in response to a crazy story Duffy concocted about a fictitious species of squid that walks the forests of Minnesota. The original lyrics are below. The extended version Adrian sang at the wedding included some scatting and new lyrics including the lines "I'd pay two hundred quid for a pound of Minnesota Forest Squid", "Some people say it's a pest. It's the calamari of the Mid-West.", and "Duffy's tale wasn't true one little bit. Sometimes she is just full of ____."

Minnesota Forest Squid,
I put you in the pan and put on the lid,
Forest Squid you're awfully tasty to me.
(doo-be-doo-be!)

Forest Squid, you taste so nice,
I don't need to use any spice,
Forest Squid, you're my favourite meal, it's true!
(doo-doo-doo-be-doo)

Every day when I make my way to the kitchen,
I find a little fella' who's furry and yella' like lichen.
(inka-dinka-inky!)

Forest Squid, you taste so yummy,
I just want you in my tummy,
Forest Squid, I'm so starving for you.
(doo-doo-doo-be-doo)

Every day when I make my way to the kitchen,
I find a little fella' who's furry and yella' like lichen.
(inka-dinka-inky!)

Forest Squid, you taste so yummy,
I just want you in my tummy.
Forest Squid, I'm so starving for -
Forest Squid, I'll do the carving for -
Forest Squid, I'm so starving for you!

Everyone left on Sunday morning to go their separate ways. All of the Taylor clan flew or drove back to the United States. Karen and Wayne drove through Ohio where they would show Harold and Esther the videotape of the wedding service. After breakfast, Kathy and Adrian and Duffy left to visit the Toronto Zoo for the afternoon. Kathy then returned to Phoenix and Adrian and Duffy flew to Winnipeg to begin their honeymoon. The next morning they flew to Churchill, Manitoba where they would be spending three days and nights watching and learning about the polar bears of Hudson Bay.

The wedding was quoted by many guests to be the best wedding they had ever attended except for their own. Although small by modern standards, the preparation that began only a month before the wedding date, still managed to cause a fair degree of stress for the the bride and groom. While Duffy was fretting over a dress and wrestling with Microsoft Publisher to prepare the Order of Worship booklets, Adrian was hastily getting fitted for a new suit and ordering the wedding rings. The suit arrived two days before the wedding and the rings arrived three days before. Adrian also spent a whole week shopping for gifts, aided by long-distance advice and approval from Duffy. Marlys and Molly and Jim all provided invaluable and unforgettable assistance and support to Duffy in the leadup to the wedding day.

As a pastor, Duffy has presided at many weddings. For those wondering (and those who asked) whether Duffy could have presided at her own wedding, the answer is "no". This was the first wedding Adrian had attended. Although he had received previous invitations to weddings for family and friends, he was either unable to attend due to the distance required to travel, or unwilling to attend because of his dislike for pomp and circumstance. This was the kind of wedding Adrian had always dreamed about - simple, informal, and small. Unfortunately small (Adrian initially wanted no more than ten guests but this was stretched to twelve) meant excluding a number of other friends and family but in the end it was the right decision to ensure that the day belonged to the bride and groom as it should.

Duffy and Adrian wish to convey their heartfelt thanks to the wedding guests who travelled great distances, weathered ill health, and responded to invitations at such short notice. It was not just their attendance but their participation in the entire one and a half days that made the event so special. Also to be thanked are the wonderful friends and family who were not at the wedding but sent best wishes. Most of all though, thanks go to the dogs, especially the Alaskan Malamutes, Adam, Kira, and Chief, for without them this day would never have been possible.